Residues

Recently an uncle who works with my mom has been blessed with a girl child after years. He came to share that happiness with my mom and mom and dad in back went to their home to see the baby. He has said that it is a girl, and he has expected a boy. Aunt has said that she likes a baby just like her husband. And the baby is just like the uncle but she is a girl. When he seems upset, my mom consoled him telling nowadays girls are better than boys. We can say boys will be there till death and girls will move to some house, but truth is boys will change completely after marriage towards his wife, but girl will never ever let the love and care for her parents fade. I was so happy to hear it and thats true ofcourse. Nowadays guys react so, I have seen many of them competely change over marriage, they turn towards their wife and nod to every word. I don't know whether they don't know how to balance the bar or they forgot that they all were joined as one. But I'm happy, that ...

We all want to raise our little ones to be polite and well behaved, and learning those lessons starts at home. It's never too early to teach your little ones basic manners! Here are eight of the most important manners you should try to teach your little ones before they go to school. They won't remember them all, or get them right every time, but patience and perseverance should get you through: 1. Always say please and thank you. W hether they're activities as small as giving your little one a snack, or them asking if they can play in the garden, always reinforce the importance of saying please and thank you. No matter how young your children are, you can't start enforcing this rule too early! 2. Table manners When your tiny tots are just learning to eat at the table , start teaching them the manners you'd like them to have for the rest of their lives! Rules like not eating with their mouths open, or not putting their elbows on the table, are good life les...

  Today, yet another wonderful day in my life... :-) Today is the last sunday of this month May, where in June all Churches will be allocated by a new pastor every 5 years. So our old Rev. is taking leave and new Rev. is coming by the next week. So this mass had a farewell say to our old Rev. who was so caring and guiding all the way through. After the mass is over, an aunty seated nearby was eargerly talking with my mom and as I was seated between them, I could not make to go out, I was sitting between them and listenning and in this while I totally forgot that our Rev. won't be coming the successive weeks and while coming out I was casually moving to the place where I left my slippers, suddenly noticed him out and wished him as everyone do this after Church, but this day I forgot this is a farewell. He suddenly came forward and gave his hands, and then I remembered, it was his farewell and gave my hand and received his handshake. I was surprised to expe...

One day I kept my eatables in the table orphaned, thinking it won't sense that so well but it came like a military force and captured it. :-) And the next day, I thought I'm quite brilliant than those ants and kept the same eatable, in the same place, same time, but between water. And I'm ashamed, it didn't even visited to see whether it can take a route. :-(

குயிலாக நான் இருந்தென்ன குரலாக நீ வரவேண்டும் பாட்டாக நான் இருந்தென்ன பொருளாக நீ வரவேண்டும் வரவேண்டும்

I spent yesterday with my dad. He is on leave. I told him to take rest the complete day, but he was very thoughtful about the bills of the month to be settled. He can't contain any work that is to be done. It will destroy his peace. Yes, and thinking about this I said ok but we two will go and settle all bills, he won't send me alone too, we have 3 to settle, 1 EB and 2 airtel. It was so hot outside he ordered me not to come. An interesting thing about my family is, we 4 of them won't hear any of the other 3's words. This was discovered by my brother. I said, we two will go else you stay at home, I give you two options, you choose one. He said, 'Vandhu tholai, veyilaa irukaennu sonna' (ok come, I told bcoz it was so hot outside, he said in a strong tone). I laughed and said, "Athu". I well know my father likes to take me outside but not if I'm gonna suffer even a bit. But it doesn't matter for me than my dad. We went to post office to pay our ...

காசு பணம் சந்தோஷம் தருவதில்ல வைரகல்லுக்கு அரிசியோட ருசியும் இல்ல

அன்பை அள்ளி கொடுத்தேன் தூக்கி போட்டார்கள் உடைந்தேன் நொறுங்கினேன் நலம் விசாரிப்போர் யாரும் இல்லை குழம்பினேன் அன்பாய் இருப்பதா இல்லை வெறுத்து ஒதுங்குவதா என்று இறுதியில் முடிவெடுத்தேன் நான் செய்யும் முட்டாள் தனத்தில் இதுவும் ஒன்றாக இருந்துவிட்டு போகட்டுமே என்று.

I was sleeping and I had a nightmare, that gave me a shock and took away my sleep... GOD, I don't even want to visualize that again... Why such dreams come to me...?

உன் பெயர் உன் பெயர் சொல்லி சொல்லி சொல்லி சொல்லி துடிக்கின்ற இதயம் வேண்டும் - வேண்டும் எனக்குள்ளே எனக்குள்ளே அப்படியோர் இதயத்தை டாக்டர்கள் பொருத்திட வேண்டும் - வேண்டும் நான் முன் நாட்களில் அடிக்கடி முனுமுனுக்கும் வரிகள்.

They will beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into purining hooks. Nation will not take up sword against nation nor they will learn war anymore... Isaiah 2:4

சொந்தத்தில் இது என்ன வகை சொந்தமோ இறைவன் தந்த வரம் இணைந்தது நெஞ்சம் மொத்தத்தில் இது என்ன வகை பந்தமோ இதழ்கள் சொல்லவில்லை புரிந்தது கொஞ்சம் உன்னோடு இருக்கும் பொன்னான நிமிடம் எந்நாளும் தொடர்ந்திட நெஞ்சம் ஏங்கும் குள்ளநரி கூட்டம் படத்திலிருந்து விழிகளிலே பாடலின் வரிகள்.

How would it feel to see your Best Friend ignores someone just because they didn't treat you properly?! What can I say, "I'm Blessed With Her In My Life"...!! When I cry you help me out When I'm happy you hear me shout When I grin you know I'm really mad because you are my best friend You can tell when I'm sad You're there in thick and thin You're my best friend You hear me out when I want to talk You help me out when I get mad You are the bestest friend I've ever had So hear me out when I say You're the light in my day You are the moon in my night You shine very bright You are the bestest friend I have!

I'm only up when you're not down. Don't wanna fly if you're still on the ground. It's like no matter what I do. Well you drive me crazy half the time; the other half I'm only trying to let you know that what I feel is true. And I'm only me when I'm with you. P.S.: A Part from Taylor Swift's "I'm only me when I'm with you".

People's selection made this election. Though people were not given rights to select the nominees, what they gave them back was commendable. Hate to realise how worse they have thought about people when seeing about the cash and things they spent to get buy votes. They proved it that votes should be earned. Then what for they have given you 5 years of power to rule Tamil Nadu? I have to praise this woman, I don't know about what colour of heart everyone has, but she has the guts. The only woman I saw who is individualy and continualy facing every threat and problems a political party of men can give. Every individual woman knows its harder to oppose even a single man, really hats off to her. Her power and administrative ability was enormous, else she can't handle and control the situation she is in. Well done. Throwing the money on the wounds of people thinking they are fools is the worst thing. Thanks to Election Commission. The efforts they have taken to ma...

Vacation Bible School, is the period of 10 days time when kids are thought about the love of God and his ways. It will start on every May 1 to 10. Tuesday I went to Church by 6.45, the program started by 7.00. When I was starting from home, some voice behind me told me to take my camera with me. I hesistated it just because I'm bit shy in attention grabbing. But the programs made me to yell at me 'you stupid'. I should have taken my camera with me, it was so awesome. The dances, the songs, the dramas, the mime, the story by the kidsssssssss.... Cheif guest was Mrs. Alli Sornam, she was known to be the best VBS director and she proved it again by holding every child's attention till she completed her message. She was telling stories like pro story teller. She was narratting every act and to be frank, I was like a child, listenning to her with all my interest. The first story she said about walking with God is, She first asked whether any kids love walking,...

தீயில்லை புகையில்லை ஒரு வேள்வி செய்கிறாய் விழியிலே நூல் இல்லை தறி இல்லை ஒரு காதல் நெய்கிறாய் மனதிலே பூவில்லை மடலில்லை புது தேனைப் பெய்கிறாய் உயிரிலே என்னை உன்னிடம் இழக்கிறேன் இருந்தும் இல்லையாய் இருக்கிறேன்

GOD! Is there any option to format my brain? I have dumped it with lots of stuffs I think. It's not even allowing me to sleep when I'm tired.

I don't know what the hell is going in a man's mind. They want to do what they want and its so simple and natural for them. I don't know how many of those men will take it as simple and natural when a girl does it.  If you guys have an expectation for a girl to be in the place where she looks beautiful, don't we girls have an expectation on you? We are nothing short of you. How much a girl looks ugly when she do wrong things is the same fact with guys when you do what is wrong.  You look ugly when you do what's bad and not kind, really. Don't think its natural for a guy, and if you think its natural for a guy then a guy naturally looks ugly. I don't know how a man can say, "see I don't like talkative girls, I like girls who are calm, composed and homely" when he is into xxx. Talkative girls are not bad than a man who likes to look nude girls (dressed girls are not an exception). Men do everything that interest them no matter they love a gi...

Ooooo its been a month, I got off my laptop. Oops my hardisk got worn out. I lost every data I eagerly collected, but everything happens for good. I spent a lot of time with God, family, lots of time to revert back and chew memories and analyse and decide and cool down, to calm and get collected, to sprinkle wisdom, to feed my soul, to sing, to laugh and to cherish, to make friends, to speak to others new to me, to mingle with world and leave it with smile. I lost what is virtual and shortlived but vain, and learnt to enjoy eternity... My Saviour, I Love You :-)