Make WAR; NoT LoVe; It's Safe...

I don't know what the hell is going in a man's mind. They want to do what they want and its so simple and natural for them. I don't know how many of those men will take it as simple and natural when a girl does it.

 If you guys have an expectation for a girl to be in the place where she looks beautiful, don't we girls have an expectation on you? We are nothing short of you. How much a girl looks ugly when she do wrong things is the same fact with guys when you do what is wrong. 

You look ugly when you do what's bad and not kind, really. Don't think its natural for a guy, and if you think its natural for a guy then a guy naturally looks ugly.

I don't know how a man can say, "see I don't like talkative girls, I like girls who are calm, composed and homely" when he is into xxx. Talkative girls are not bad than a man who likes to look nude girls (dressed girls are not an exception).

Men do everything that interest them no matter they love a girl or not, and expects a girl to be loyal to him and respecting to his family, to join hands in bringing his family financially, to nurture their children, to cook, wash dishes, clean clothes and take of the house and.... more... to be dumb in what he does, to not be suspicious when he do something suspicious, to be patient with the time(s) he spend out, to accept that he is a man and surrender to his domination. 

I don't know, I thought both men and women are different and perfect and they need to be together to be complete within themselves. Man and woman are nothing short of themselves. What a man need is a woman and what a woman need is a man and they should well complement eachother and depending on eachother should be a pride.

But nowadays most of the guys when entering into marriage they come prepared to not give space to a girl for who then can take advantage over him. And I don't know why can't girls have the same idea? 

When guys come to know that the girl loves him so dearly and she is fully dependent on his love and can't take a step forward without him, they cut what girls expect from them and dominate them to live like what they wish on her. If you want a xerox copy of yourself, why can't you marry yourself? If you truly love, why do you want to find faults, stay apart, force them to do what you like?

They say, men are stupid. But I say women are. I have seen many man commenting on girls, sighting at parts of them, they say girls dumb guys, they say girls cheat, they say girls take over advantage and ruin the family but I haven't heard a single girl saying that a man has broken her heart when she trusted him or cheated her. It's not men don't do it, but woman loves man that much not to offend even his gender.

But one thing, now I know a guy's strength is his girl. How much she loves and trusts him, is the strength of a guy. They don't overtake you unless they earn these two things from you.

P.S. No offend to all guys. I remember I have two good men called dad and brother.