Opposite attracts but they rarely stay together..

Opposite attracts but they rarely stay together.. Attraction is just attraction and for being together there should be something more than that.. 

We'll always feel a sense of excitement to see someone who's entirely opposite in every way and thought than us.. We love to watch them, chat with them even a date seems so adventurous and interesting. 

Esp when we are sad, dull and uninterested in life, an upbeat personality with all positive waves and smiles all over their face who looks life with all love and energy seems so attracting that we may want them to stay with us forever. But this sub-consciously is just an attraction towards such a personality and we may lose our interest when we find them in the entirely opposite way.

This can be well felt when they tell you they don't like your anger or your talkative personality or something else.. When someone loves a person, it means they love their happy part, sad part and angry part. Expression of happiness, sadness and anger are our basic quality which is born with us and we can only control how much and how well we show it but everyone has their part to play. When feeling a loss of interest when such exhibitions of natural character occurs, the relationship will not last or will go unhappy till their end. 

But when someone is matured enough to think beyond little things that some of the basic characters make them what they are and every human being has their own moods to live and exhibit, they understand well eachother and alter activities that make them more happy than angry..

This doesn't mean that we should marry our cloning, but someone who admires us completely totally and loves every face of us.. We'd get bored if we marry the similar personality but marry someone who has similar views on life, as man and woman have their unique ways of doing things, similar views on life creates a good bonding.

Check whether your partner accepts you when you reveal him/her something strange about you that he/she didn't expect to be.. When they did, they are best to be with. When relationship fights are about claiming more time, attention and love, this cliff can be cured & even made attached so well. But when the fights are for bragging rights of doing what one wishes to do, it will eventually fall apart even if it was worked so hard to keep well.

Everyone has their opinion in life but the basic fundamentals should go well with eachother. Every opinion and activities that differs from the partner may be admired and supported but the activity that causes insecurity to one of them, and, to other, if it was a bragging right that can't be altered then this sure not gonna work.

Always analyze everything you do, unless you're sure of what you are, what you do and what you need, don't mess with someone else.. If acceptance and sacrifices are one way, then no way its meant to be. Learn more about what you had, have and gonna have with your partner, think what all have your partner accepted of you and never complained and rejected for what and see if it worth to stay together..


Love is not you do what you feel right and I'll do what I feel right, we'll just share the bed.. But it is joining hands in every activity of both..

And somewhere someone's line gets through my mind now & that is

"You can't keep fucking with someone's feelings just because you're unsure of yours."