Family's New Look On GIRL BaBy

Recently an uncle who works with my mom has been blessed with a girl child after years. He came to share that happiness with my mom and mom and dad in back went to their home to see the baby. He has said that it is a girl, and he has expected a boy. Aunt has said that she likes a baby just like her husband. And the baby is just like the uncle but she is a girl. When he seems upset, my mom consoled him telling nowadays girls are better than boys. We can say boys will be there till death and girls will move to some house, but truth is boys will change completely after marriage towards his wife, but girl will never ever let the love and care for her parents fade.

I was so happy to hear it and thats true ofcourse. Nowadays guys react so, I have seen many of them competely change over marriage, they turn towards their wife and nod to every word. I don't know whether they don't know how to balance the bar or they forgot that they all were joined as one.

But I'm happy, that girls have been born with so much perfect characters that made them to out do everything. I now know why mom's love is called the greatest and why everything is named after a girl. Girls are blessed creation of GOD.

Though I can't enjoy night outs with friends dancing in road, tea in a tea stall, never mind day and night and lone and crowd, never care for which day I would bleed or would it stain, never have a chance to give harmones make my mood, never will suffer pain, never will care for how I dress or who stares my what, ride a bus without any smelling like police, never wear a safety mask everytime without enjoying where I'm and what I'm doing,

get rid of hostels and stay with friends in a flat,

go picnic with friends, live alone if I'm not interested in marriage much more and not other things... but 

I'm proud to be a girl of the character I'm made off ♥

P.S. Thank God. Just now realized what I have missed before marriage is better than what would I miss after marriage ;-)

8 Important Manners You Should Teach Your Little Ones

We all want to raise our little ones to be polite and well behaved, and learning those lessons starts at home. It's never too early to teach your little ones basic manners! Here are eight of the most important manners you should try to teach your little ones before they go to school. They won't remember them all, or get them right every time, but patience and perseverance should get you through:

1. Always say please and thank you.

Whether they're activities as small as giving your little one a snack, or them asking if they can play in the garden, always reinforce the importance of saying please and thank you. No matter how young your children are, you can't start enforcing this rule too early!

2. Table manners

When your tiny tots are just learning to eat at the table, start teaching them the manners you'd like them to have for the rest of their lives! Rules like not eating with their mouths open, or not putting their elbows on the table, are good life lessons for your children to learn as soon as possible.

3. Play dates

When you're little ones go on play dates, or to birthday parties, remind them to thank their friends parents for having them over. If you aren't going to be attending the play date or event with your little one, ensure your little ones know they should treat their friends parents (and all grown-ups) with the same respect they treat you.

4. Birthday party etiquette

It's often said that kids go wild at birthday parties - all the sweet snacks and fun can make little ones get excited, and sometimes forget their manners. But no matter how excited your little one is on their birthday, there are some manners they shouldn't forget: to open their presents thoughtfully (not ripping off the paper, or tossing the present to one side as soon as they've seen it) and to say thank you for every gift, and to every attendee.

5. Mind the language

There will come a moment every parent dreads: the moment your little one swears. And then finds it funny! The worst thing you can do in this scenario is laugh. Let them know that you already know that word, you think it's unpleasant, not funny, and ask your little one not to use it again!

6. Don't be mean

Kids tease each other, and they find it funny. But this can sometimes go a step too far and lead to bullying. Make sure your little ones don't call others mean names, and don't make fun of anyone for any reason. Ganging up on someone else is cruel, not clever.

7. Excuse me!

Once your little ones have mastered saying please and thank you, teach them to say excuse me. It's the polite thing to say when you have to interrupt someone, or bump into somebody.

8. TMI!

There are some things that are too much information, and that your little ones shouldn't talk about in public! These include genitals, poo, nose picking, and all the other gory things that amuse kids!

P.S.  I would say the vital things everyone should teach our kid. As we say,'What we learn in childhood will last long'. I remember when I studied in Vailankanni, the rules they have executed was awesome that brought a drastic move in my life. As I entered there by 2nd, I started my life in "Kids World". What a name! Ha!.... :-) Its a seperate place where there will be classrooms for LKG to 2nd, in the shape of small huts with small benches and desks painted with all cheerful colours like yellow and orange :-) No bigger classes will be near and no noice around. This world will be closed in three sides and a front open with an arche named "Kids World". In the center of all the small huts, there will be all play things for the kids to play during break and lunch.

I had a fantastic experience there (I can't guarantee that now). They ensure first the students learn discipline and manners and then studies. We have to well behave, they will teach you to show respect to others not because of fear but of character. Second manners, all the things above will be ensured along with equality among boys and girls, they won't treat one higher and will not teach you to scare or fear for the other gender.

During our lunch, everyone should bring lunch, there will be seperate subject teachers who were allocated to check daily by visiting all classes whether everyone has brought their lunch, and this is not only with kids... I started there as a kid so I well used to everything. If someone didn't bring their lunch, they will be sent to the VP where he will ask questions on why we didn't bring it and then he will ask the worker there to get something for us in their canteen.

Along with lunch we have to bring a napkin and a spoon. Every class teacher should sit the class along with the students and take the lunch. No spoon scratching sound should be heard :-) staff will say our name and will say "eat quietly". We should first place our napkin in our lap/desk and then take the food and ensure nothing we drop down. If our napkin was not clean we will get some dose, we should correct it the next day :-)

Its always good to teach children good things than dumping them merely into books. It will make a good society in future.

♥ The Gift Of Love ♥

 

Today, yet another wonderful day in my life... :-) Today is the last sunday of this month May, where in June all Churches will be allocated by a new pastor every 5 years. So our old Rev. is taking leave and new Rev. is coming by the next week. So this mass had a farewell say to our old Rev. who was so caring and guiding all the way through.

After the mass is over, an aunty seated nearby was eargerly talking with my mom and as I was seated between them, I could not make to go out, I was sitting between them and listenning and in this while I totally forgot that our Rev. won't be coming the successive weeks and while coming out I was casually moving to the place where I left my slippers, suddenly noticed him out and wished him as everyone do this after Church, but this day I forgot this is a farewell. He suddenly came forward and gave his hands, and then I remembered, it was his farewell and gave my hand and received his handshake. I was surprised to experince this because I haven't felt this care with anyother Rev. I met other than my Chithappa who is also a Rev.

After the handshake he said, "You can meet me anytime, call me anytime for anything, come to my office and if its evening I'll be free, come to my college and make use of all the facilities available there, you can use the library, go where ever you want, come to chapel and fellowship... because your Rev. is there". Yes he is the principal of that famous, well maintained, perfect college. He was allocated as an Rev. aditional to his work from the diocese, as we have been unfortunately left alone with no Rev. from last september. I love the care he expelled on me. I was immensely happy by the reception, love and care I received from an unexpected person... I couldn't express my happiness that time, it was enourmous in my soul. Its true that we can feel an inner happiness when we give do something that relates God and goodness to other people.. I felt such an inner happiness,

I coundn't express in words.

While riding back with a huge smile on my face I looked up the sky and said, "I LOVE YOU JESUS... ♥"

Thank you Pastor...

Thank You JESUS... ♥

Ants are more brilliant

One day I kept my eatables in the table orphaned, thinking it won't sense that so well but it came like a military force and captured it. :-) And the next day, I thought I'm quite brilliant than those ants and kept the same eatable, in the same place, same time, but between water. And I'm ashamed, it didn't even visited to see whether it can take a route. :-(

நான் இருந்தென்ன; நீ வரவேண்டும்

குயிலாக நான் இருந்தென்ன

குரலாக நீ வரவேண்டும்

பாட்டாக நான் இருந்தென்ன

பொருளாக நீ வரவேண்டும்

வரவேண்டும்

I spent yesterday with my dad. He is on leave. I told him to take rest the complete day, but he was very thoughtful about the bills of the month to be settled. He can't contain any work that is to be done. It will destroy his peace. Yes, and thinking about this I said ok but we two will go and settle all bills, he won't send me alone too, we have 3 to settle, 1 EB and 2 airtel. It was so hot outside he ordered me not to come. An interesting thing about my family is, we 4 of them won't hear any of the other 3's words. This was discovered by my brother. I said, we two will go else you stay at home, I give you two options, you choose one. He said, 'Vandhu tholai, veyilaa irukaennu sonna' (ok come, I told bcoz it was so hot outside, he said in a strong tone). I laughed and said, "Athu".

I well know my father likes to take me outside but not if I'm gonna suffer even a bit. But it doesn't matter for me than my dad. We went to post office to pay our EB bill. Three of them were on their place with no of the customer standing, it was empty. Only 4 of the staffs were there, 3 of them sitting in their places.

We went to the first counter, she was a lady sitting in her chudithar. I usually have a tendency to observe almost everything esp. people. Her appearance on first glance stated she is so lethargic and she proved it in the next second. My dad asked her so politely whether EB bills are convenient to accept this time. He usually is so kind and polite to others. I hate being so polite where its not mean. Being kind and polite is good but I won't be in the situation where people react so irrespecting. She acted so, she didn't even answered my dad, but suddenly a man near her answered, 'yes sir'. I got anger at her but the man's response subsided me. Then she received the card and without any responsibility to make it complete for the customer, she was talking about the current cut and the inverter to the man sitting beside. She was stirring my anger, but the only good thing about my anger is I will wait to show it in the right time and in the right tone, but the worst thing about that is, i'm so brutally honest. Usually I have myself in control if I'm with someone because my response would hurt them. I kept quite but I was staring at her without my eyes off. She was murmuring with the man standing beside her for mins and the man took leave. Then she was typing so reluctantly in system and settled the bill. She was having the coin box before our eyes on her table and asked my dad the change. My dad usually forgets and this day it was hard for him to concentrate on other things so he forgot and I too. He said sorry I have forgot to bring change and then she reluctantly picked up the coins and placed strongly in the desk above. I hate it, what was she paid every month? Postal departments are now replaced with mobile messages, emails, video conferencing etc.. so they should be so active to work for the negligible amount of customers who come there once in a while.

While coming down I asked my dad, 'Why are you bending more than your backbone's flexibility?'. He answered, 'Being polite is not wrong'. I said, 'Its wrong for such people, you make their backbone rust'. He said, 'Yes she is so lethargic but we have to bring the change amount, its our responsibility to be perfect'. I said, 'Its not just about the change but its her attitude talking to her colleagues, why can't she do that after everyone is off (though we are the only people there)'. I added, 'We have many duties out in the sun to accomplish, but she has this only job in the shade why can't she do that with at least a small percent of sincerity?'. Dad answered, 'I think hot atmosphere made you so hot as well' and he added, ' If you show what you have, they will trouble you, then it will turn a problem for you and its a total waste of time in the end'. I said, 'I will in the right tone and in the right time'.

Then we headed along the path while dad said, 'See how good it was to have you coming with me outside, come with me, if you come with me, I can so proudly show the world, 'Enakoru magal irukaal' ( I have a daughter - that MGR song revisited). I laughed.

He then too me to airtel shop. He already told me that one girl there speaks with dashing her eye lashes so often thinking its so style but he hate that behaviour. I first said it would be some disorder, my dad smiled and said, 'The way she do that is like disorder only'. I smiled.

While reaching there I remembered this and asked my dad, 'Is that girl here?'. He said, 'Yes, you remember it well'. We entered. There were 3 staffs, two girls and one boy. All of them were with 2 customers. My dad went to the boy. Again my instinct of observation said, he is sincere. He proved it. He sent one customer complete and started taking bill amount for the next customer who had 2 bills to complete. He made it a bit late for getting the phone numbers he was on call. So the boy turned to my dad and asked, 'Whether shall I finish yours, tell me your number'. That time the previous customer ended his call and turned to the boy. My dad said, 'Complete him and we shall see mine later'. The boy said in a polite tone, 'Shall I finish that before you, ok'.

In the middle, I was observing all the other staffs and customers. The girl sitting next to the boy and the girl sitting next to her was acting like heroines on the interview. One old man with all white in his head was bending before the girl and asking so ignorantly, 'what happened why I can't make calls?', she was responding, 'your validity has ended'. I understood that he didn't understand what she said, but she didn't made an effort to make him understand what was the problem and what he can do to rectify it in the future. The girl beside her didn't take any customer to solve by herself instead she told in a strong tone to the next girl's customer who asked a doubt, it implies that she knows what it was and she is tired of making him understand. Then why for they tend to get customers who were not updated to all the techs they knew? If you want customers from all phase, you should have the patience and politeness to make them comfortable with what you provide. In the mean time, one guy who came there went off and none of them thought it was a loss.

Anyways, then one call came and seeing that number she got anxious and said its the same number he is asking why his balance amount didn't pile up even after recharging it before half an hour. The boy said, 'it will in the evening'. The girl asked, 'then why are you saying it will in 5mins. The boy said, 'Dont leave the call unanswered take it and say it will in the evening'. She didn't. When the boy completes ours, he was having 10rs to return to us, he didn't have it so asked the near by girl, 'Madam, can you give me 10rs, I have to pay this customer'. He was asking so politely but she didn't responded. Lately she said, 'Irunga' (Wait). She was having it right before her and she was not even doing an important job.

Then a new girl came as though she had went out for having lunch. By mean time I was thinking between the two girls whether she is the one dad said. Later I found in a glance that the girl entered was so. She acted like the master of the other two. The boy completed it and we left.

While taking scooty my dad asked, 'You were so obeserving inside, what did you observe?'. I said, 'Nothing, how they work'. My dad smiled back. I said, 'You know I play a game cake mania, in that game all the customers were heading in queue, I have to make the cake so faster to make them satisfied and should not leave anyone without cake, it will affect the next amount of customers I have and the faster I satisfy the more amount I earn and I have to gain more customers to complete the day's target'. I said, 'We have to make them play that game once. Then they can know in what place they were sitting'. My dad said, 'That game can be in the interview they take'.

வாழ்க்கை..!

காசு பணம் சந்தோஷம் தருவதில்ல

வைரகல்லுக்கு அரிசியோட ருசியும் இல்ல

உறக்கமில்லா இரவுகளில் இரக்கமில்லா நினைவுகள்

அன்பை அள்ளி கொடுத்தேன்

தூக்கி போட்டார்கள்

உடைந்தேன் நொறுங்கினேன்

நலம் விசாரிப்போர் யாரும் இல்லை

குழம்பினேன்

அன்பாய் இருப்பதா

இல்லை வெறுத்து ஒதுங்குவதா என்று

இறுதியில் முடிவெடுத்தேன்

நான் செய்யும் முட்டாள் தனத்தில்

இதுவும் ஒன்றாக இருந்துவிட்டு போகட்டுமே என்று.

My Terrible Nightmare...

I was sleeping and I had a nightmare, that gave me a shock and took away my sleep... GOD, I don't even want to visualize that again... Why such dreams come to me...?

வருடிய வரிகள்

உன் பெயர் உன் பெயர் சொல்லி சொல்லி சொல்லி சொல்லி

துடிக்கின்ற இதயம் வேண்டும் - வேண்டும்

எனக்குள்ளே எனக்குள்ளே அப்படியோர் இதயத்தை

டாக்டர்கள் பொருத்திட வேண்டும் - வேண்டும்

நான் முன் நாட்களில் அடிக்கடி முனுமுனுக்கும் வரிகள்.

Sunday's Church Message

They will beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into purining hooks. Nation will not take up sword against nation nor they will learn war anymore... Isaiah 2:4

இறைவன் தந்த வரம்

சொந்தத்தில் இது என்ன வகை சொந்தமோ

இறைவன் தந்த வரம் இணைந்தது நெஞ்சம்

மொத்தத்தில் இது என்ன வகை பந்தமோ

இதழ்கள் சொல்லவில்லை புரிந்தது கொஞ்சம்

உன்னோடு இருக்கும் பொன்னான நிமிடம்

எந்நாளும் தொடர்ந்திட நெஞ்சம் ஏங்கும்

குள்ளநரி கூட்டம் படத்திலிருந்து விழிகளிலே பாடலின் வரிகள்.

How Would It FeeL To...!

How would it feel to see your Best Friend ignores someone just because they didn't treat you properly?!

What can I say, "I'm Blessed With Her In My Life"...!!

When I cry you help me out

When I'm happy you hear me shout

When I grin you know I'm really mad

because you are my best friend

You can tell when I'm sad

You're there in thick and thin

You're my best friend

You hear me out when I want to talk

You help me out when I get mad

You are the bestest friend I've ever had

So hear me out when I say

You're the light in my day

You are the moon in my night

You shine very bright

You are the bestest friend I have!

Don't wanna fly If you're still on the ground...

I'm only up when you're not down.

Don't wanna fly if you're still on the ground.

It's like no matter what I do.

Well you drive me crazy half the time;

the other half I'm only trying to let you know

that what I feel is true.

And I'm only me when I'm with you.

P.S.: A Part from Taylor Swift's "I'm only me when I'm with you".

People's Selection made this Election

People's selection made this election.

Though people were not given rights to select the nominees, what they gave them back was commendable.

Hate to realise how worse they have thought about people when seeing about the cash and things they spent to get buy votes.

They proved it that votes should be earned. Then what for they have given you 5 years of power to rule Tamil Nadu?

I have to praise this woman, I don't know about what colour of heart everyone has, but she has the guts. The only woman I saw who is individualy and continualy facing every threat and problems a political party of men can give. Every individual woman knows its harder to oppose even a single man, really hats off to her. Her power and administrative ability was enormous, else she can't handle and control the situation she is in. Well done.

Throwing the money on the wounds of people thinking they are fools is the worst thing.

Thanks to Election Commission.

The efforts they have taken to maintain truth and justice made me to vote this year. They have proved and showed to the politicians, who the people are.

VBS Day

Vacation Bible School, is the period of 10 days time when kids are thought about the love of God and his ways. It will start on every May 1 to 10.

Tuesday I went to Church by 6.45, the program started by 7.00. When I was starting from home, some voice behind me told me to take my camera with me. I hesistated it just because I'm bit shy in attention grabbing. But the programs made me to yell at me 'you stupid'. I should have taken my camera with me, it was so awesome.

The dances, the songs, the dramas, the mime, the story by the kidsssssssss.... Cheif guest was Mrs. Alli Sornam, she was known to be the best VBS director and she proved it again by holding every child's attention till she completed her message. She was telling stories like pro story teller. She was narratting every act and to be frank, I was like a child, listenning to her with all my interest.

The first story she said about walking with God is,

She first asked whether any kids love walking, some kids shouted in joy raising their hands, then about walking alone, no kids did, and then about walking alone in the dark, every kid nodded a BIG NOOOO.

She smiled and then continued about a father and a son who was walking along. There comes a deep, dark tunnel and the son hesitated to move into it. The father said, 'Dear son, come along with me, I'll go before you and you follow me'.

They both entered into the tunnel, and after a while the son got frightened of the dark and screamed, 'Father'. Father replied, 'Dear son follow me'. And the son followed with the hope that he is safe by his father who is going before him in his way.

After a little while the son again screamed, the father again replied, 'Dear son follow me'. With the voice of his father, the son crossed the dark tunnel along with his father.

Like wise when you find situations of dark that might fear you, call on for God and He will reply you back, with His voice, be of good courage and walk behind Him believing He is walking before you and will protect you, is the message.

Wowww what a nice story. But I regret missing my cam at home because she narrated it so lovely that anyone will love it.

Second story was a true story that happened in California. There was again a father who is a pastor and his only little son Joe. Every sunday after mass, the father and Joe seem to give tracts (tracts are small cards on which good wordings from Bible are printed) to all those they come against and to all the houses that are beside. If the door was locked they used to put the tracts on post box.

One day father had a severe cold and the climate was even colder that he could not make it well. The father asked his son, 'Joe today your dad is not fine, so we will go home, Jesus will excuse us this one day as I'm unable, so let us go home'. Joe said, 'Ok dad, we'll do one thing, you wait here in Church, I'll go fast and give all the tracts to all whom I meet by and come'. Father agreed and gave him all the tracts.

Joe was very actively running to give all those tracts but could see none. As it was cold outside, no one was there. Joe was disappointed but he was in a eager to give all these tracts to everyone. He continued running and there came few men with their coats, Joe gave them tracts and he ran again and there were few men, he gave them, likewise he gave all tracts but one was left. He searched here and there but couldn't find one to give this tract to. He was so disappointed but there was only one tract left out and so Joe wants to give it to someone. He remembered that old, dark house in his way and thought he would give it to someone there.

He went to the house and saw the post box was missing, so he pressed the calling bell, but no one appeared. He was saddened but he still had an interest to give the last tract and pressed the bell again, but no one appeared. He was dejected and this time he pressed the calling bell and didn't took his hands off. An angry old woman came opening the door with utmost anger. She yelled him, 'What'. Joe said, 'Pls Granny don't be angry at me, I just came by to give you tracts'. 'What tracts', she yelled again. Joe told, 'Pls Granny don't be angry, Jesus Loves You and I too love you' he inserted the last tract into her arms and ran off.

The next sunday was second sunday that's witness sunday. Anyone who have witnessed God's miracle in their life, will come forward in Church and share that with everyone. When its time, the same old lady came forward. Pastor (Joe's father) was confused on seeing the lady because he haven't seen her before. The lady on standing in front said, 'God and that little... she called, 'You little boy come here'. Joe was fightened as he pressed the calling bell to her anger, he hesitated and looked his father. His father asked Joe to come forward.

Joe came by and the old lady continued, 'God and this little God's angel changed my life. I was a good believer of Jesus and later I was married to a man who was not into God, we both lived a life where I have forgot God and his ways. He died a couple of years ago and my life doomed. I couldn't find a light to carry myself and last sunday I planned to take my life away. I tied a rope on my upstairs room where if anyone found out, it would take time to reach me upstairs to save me. I tied the rope and checked whether it fixed me right, and that first door bell rang. I ignored it. Then when I inserted my head, the second door bell rang. I thought I will wait till the bell goes off and then I seek to insert my head, there rang the third door bell, but this time the door bell didn't stop.

Something said to me, 'stop this and go down to see who it is'. I came down and saw this little God's angel who said, 'Don't be angry on me, Jesus Loves You and I too love you' and inserted a tract and ran off. After many years for the first time I read God's word and it brought a new light into my life.'

So if we are active in walking with God and following his ways, we will be like that little Joe, who was like God's Angel to other people.

So inspired by the story and the way she told it. Later our Church's Sunday School director said that, 'when I specified her ability for kids esp. in welcome address, many would have thought that as an exaggeration but she proved it that was very little for her'. Very true. Later my mom went to wish her and congratulated for the fantastic way she lifted our VBS day. She then saw our pastor and asked his wellness who had a catract operation 10 days ago. He said he is okay now and gave a good rapport of me to my mom on how beautifully I listenned to all the programs :-) as I was the most irregular believer (I don't participate in any of the Church's activities, I'm quite reserved for my first step unless I'm forced into it).

But I was very happy to gain that good rapport from my pastor who is a true man of God :-) While ridding back I shouted silently, "God I Love You" with utmost joy in my heart... :-)

வாலியின் அழகிய வரிகள் - எங்கேயும் காதல்

தீயில்லை புகையில்லை

ஒரு வேள்வி செய்கிறாய் விழியிலே

நூல் இல்லை தறி இல்லை

ஒரு காதல் நெய்கிறாய் மனதிலே

பூவில்லை மடலில்லை

புது தேனைப் பெய்கிறாய் உயிரிலே

என்னை உன்னிடம் இழக்கிறேன்

இருந்தும் இல்லையாய் இருக்கிறேன்

What's Cooking In My Head???

GOD! Is there any option to format my brain?

I have dumped it with lots of stuffs I think.

It's not even allowing me to sleep when I'm tired.

Make WAR; NoT LoVe; It's Safe...

I don't know what the hell is going in a man's mind. They want to do what they want and its so simple and natural for them. I don't know how many of those men will take it as simple and natural when a girl does it.

 If you guys have an expectation for a girl to be in the place where she looks beautiful, don't we girls have an expectation on you? We are nothing short of you. How much a girl looks ugly when she do wrong things is the same fact with guys when you do what is wrong. 

You look ugly when you do what's bad and not kind, really. Don't think its natural for a guy, and if you think its natural for a guy then a guy naturally looks ugly.

I don't know how a man can say, "see I don't like talkative girls, I like girls who are calm, composed and homely" when he is into xxx. Talkative girls are not bad than a man who likes to look nude girls (dressed girls are not an exception).

Men do everything that interest them no matter they love a girl or not, and expects a girl to be loyal to him and respecting to his family, to join hands in bringing his family financially, to nurture their children, to cook, wash dishes, clean clothes and take of the house and.... more... to be dumb in what he does, to not be suspicious when he do something suspicious, to be patient with the time(s) he spend out, to accept that he is a man and surrender to his domination. 

I don't know, I thought both men and women are different and perfect and they need to be together to be complete within themselves. Man and woman are nothing short of themselves. What a man need is a woman and what a woman need is a man and they should well complement eachother and depending on eachother should be a pride.

But nowadays most of the guys when entering into marriage they come prepared to not give space to a girl for who then can take advantage over him. And I don't know why can't girls have the same idea? 

When guys come to know that the girl loves him so dearly and she is fully dependent on his love and can't take a step forward without him, they cut what girls expect from them and dominate them to live like what they wish on her. If you want a xerox copy of yourself, why can't you marry yourself? If you truly love, why do you want to find faults, stay apart, force them to do what you like?

They say, men are stupid. But I say women are. I have seen many man commenting on girls, sighting at parts of them, they say girls dumb guys, they say girls cheat, they say girls take over advantage and ruin the family but I haven't heard a single girl saying that a man has broken her heart when she trusted him or cheated her. It's not men don't do it, but woman loves man that much not to offend even his gender.

But one thing, now I know a guy's strength is his girl. How much she loves and trusts him, is the strength of a guy. They don't overtake you unless they earn these two things from you.

P.S. No offend to all guys. I remember I have two good men called dad and brother.

அப்படியே நிற்கிறேன்

Thank You Lord!

Ooooo its been a month, I got off my laptop. Oops my hardisk got worn out. I lost every data I eagerly collected, but everything happens for good. I spent a lot of time with God, family, lots of time to revert back and chew memories and analyse and decide and cool down, to calm and get collected, to sprinkle wisdom, to feed my soul, to sing, to laugh and to cherish, to make friends, to speak to others new to me, to mingle with world and leave it with smile. I lost what is virtual and shortlived but vain, and learnt to enjoy eternity...

My Saviour, I Love You :-)